How it works
Apply
Your application is reviewed by our matching team within 48 hours. We read every word.
Be Verified
An automated check confirms your government ID and live selfie match. Then a brief Google Meet call, about 10–15 minutes, helps the team get to know you. It is a warm conversation, not an interrogation.
Be Introduced
We make one thoughtful introduction at a time, when the fit is right.
The Founding Member Offer
Founding members receive a longer free trial with up to three introductions and permanent founding status. Full details will be published before applications open.
Why Tupair is different
Safety-first
Every member's identity is checked against government ID and a live selfie, and a person on our team reads every application. No bots, no catfishing. Trusted contacts, safety check-ins, and asymmetric visibility are built into the architecture.
Intentional
One introduction per week, hand-picked by the matching team. No browsing, no feeds. You're introduced to a specific person, with a note explaining why.
Private
No member is ever in a browsable feed, and your profile is never on display. The only person who will ever know you're here is the one you're introduced to. What you share with them is always your call.
Frequently asked questions
Ready to apply?
Founding membership will open for a limited cohort. Check back soon.
Apply for Founding Membership